One of the common fears men have is actually going out - alone. For some reason, many men equate being alone in a social situation with negative imagery - people thinking he is desperate, lonely or has no friends.

by ChrisBenjamin

One of the common fears men have is actually going out - alone. For some reason, many men equate being alone in a social situation with negative imagery - people thinking he is desperate, lonely or has no friends.

On the contrary - going out alone can be a REAL asset when it comes to meeting women. In fact, it can do more for your game that you would ever imagine. Let me tell you why.

Reason one is that going out alone quickly dispels any lingering problems you have with self-image or other people's opinions of yourself. As the lone wolf, you quickly learn that the only opinion that matters to you - is your own.

Secondly, if you go out to meet women by yourself - you do not have to worry about your friends embarrassing you or trying to hit on the same beautiful women you want to hit on. You can go to the places you want to go to with no arguments and you can leave when, and with whom you choose.

The third, and possible most important reason, is that you can use your lone status to portray absolute confidence to the women you meet. Say you are talking to a hot chic at the bar, and she asks you who you are with. You say, "I'm alone" in an unapologetic, every-day kind of voice that shows her it's your choice.

In order to have this be effective, though, you have truly got to LIVE the confident, secure lifestyle of the alpha-male. Women can see through a faade, so you better have that self-assurance to back it up.

What you do next is really begin to peak her attraction to you by starting a cocky-funny interaction with her. What you do is you start turning the tables around on her. When she asks her who you are there with, you tell her, "You!" She will laugh a little at that, and then ask you , "Ok, wise guy, who are you REALLY here with?" You then tell her, "Look, dude, I only met you a few minutes ago and you are already trying to get my life story? By the end of the week you are going to be packing your things into my apartment! Slow down!"

What you are really saying with this interaction, though, is that is matters not a fig who you are there with because you are a confident, sure and alpha status lone-wolf. And maybe - you are just a little bit out of her league. Use a cocky/funny approach with a hint of mischief thrown in there and see how the women find that truly attractive!